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Tuesday, 23 February 2016
How To Succeed Under Pressure
Being able to handle and absorb pressure is the most important trait any entrepreneur can develop and being honest with you it took me years to be able to handle the pressure.
I often tell people that it's the ability to survive the pressure in business or in your pursuit that determines how far you will go and trust me putting yourself out there and putting it all on the line time and time again requires a certain amount of insanity.
You've got to be able to handle the pressure if you are ever going to do big things with your life and it is not something that can be taught at school or university you simply have to experience it and feel it and eventually when you've had enough setbacks and experienced enough pain and taken enough hits you will start to be confident within yourself to handle and even thrive upon the pressure!
You can't develop a higher tolerance to pressure until you have felt it over and over again but what I will tell you is that you need to accept very early on in your life and your pursuit that pressure and stress are part of the journey and accepting that things will go wrong more often than not and that you will fail more than you will succeed will help you view pressure in a more empowering way!
Wednesday, 17 February 2016
5 Things You Must Get Done Everything Morning To Get Ahead Of Your Competitors.
Hey Guys, here are a few things that I do every morning that you might want to start implementing into your morning routine.
1. The first thing I do once I'm up is Write my goals out, visualise them and really think about what it would mean to achieve each one and what it will take from me to achieve them.
2. I always exercise in the morning simply because it's a powerful way to start the day, gets me into the rhythm of accomplishment and puts me into a strong state of mind.
The other BIG reason I exercise in the morning is because nothing ever comes up in the morning. Working out in the evening leaves you vulnerable to something coming up like after work commitments, birthday parties, romantic dinners,etc
3. The early morning is the best time to reflect, meditate and ponder.....Spending time with yourself and your own thoughts is imperative to your own personal development and growth.
You only find your life purpose, gifts and vision by investing quality time with yourself.
4. Write in your journal !!
You want to get into the habit of writing in a journal and getting what's in your head onto paper, it will help you think more clearly and allow you to expand on your own thoughts, idea's and dreams!
5. The main reason I wake up before 5am is to take full advantage of a fresh day, a clear & focused mind and a distraction free environment to work on, create and further develop those BIG idea's, dreams, projects and my ART.
Before 5am is prime time for creating your dreams and working on your masterpiece.
Hopefully that inspires you and gives you a little insight into the powerful things you can do each morning to move you closer to your goals and dreams!
Sunday, 12 July 2015
20 Signs You Have A Perfect BoyFriend
The truth is there is no such thing as perfect. So let’s
frame this list as ‘perfect for most’. We all want and desire that perfect
match, the person we know is the ‘one’ for us. We also know the likes and
desires in a partner look different for everyone, so this list is created with
the framework of what a healthy and loving relationship might look like. We often desire to be truly loved and
accepted in our lives, especially when we are in a relationship.
The most important thing about any relationship is that love
is the common denominator and that past issues or concerns are not getting in
the way and hurting the current relationship.
Here are 20 signs you have a perfect boyfriend.
1. He listens to you.
First and foremost, we all want to be heard. We want our
values, opinions and beliefs to be validated. Even if they aren’t agreed with,
we want them to be respected. The qualities of a perfect boyfriend would
definitely include listening to what you have to say. He calls you just to hear
your voice, or texts you throughout the day to find out what is going on in
your life because he truly cares.
2. He really is that into you.
This doesn’t mean that he is obsessed with you and is always
blowing up your phone or constantly contacting you. It really means that he is
interested, intrigued and enamored by you. His actions just visibly reflect
that. When your boyfriend realises that his life is better with you and he
wants you in it every day, then it is time to recognize the relationship could
grow into something more. He wants to spend time with you, he tells you how
awesome you are, and he is not afraid to be honest with his feelings for you.
3. He talks about his feelings and emotions.
Even though society sometimes gives us the impression that all
men need to be hard, emotionless, or “strong”; the real men out there let their
guard down to the ones that mean the most to them. Real men talk about their
feelings and emotions. There is nothing wrong with men articulating their
feelings or emotions, especially to someone they spend a lot of time with. Once
you have a deeper intimacy with your boyfriend, you know he is in it for the
long haul. He shares his past, his fears, his wants, and his desires with you.
When he talks about serious topics with you, he is not afraid to love or to
tell you how he loves you.
4. He accepts all of you.
This might me one of the most important aspects in any
relationship. Your boyfriend does not want to change you. He accepts your good
and your not so good. He lifts you up and lets you know that you are perfect in
his eyes. You know you have a perfect boyfriend when you know they are not
trying to change you, or manipulate and influence you to become someone you are
not. He tells you how pretty you are. He even tells you that he likes the
things you hate about yourself.
5. He supports ‘you’ time.
Being in a relationship takes up a large part of your life.
However, your relationship should not take up 100% of your time. Everyone has
their own special interests and hobbies in life. The perfect boyfriend supports
you doing things on your own or with your best friends. He embraces time apart
as much as he embraces time together. He knows that each of your lives can
remain balanced while in the relationship. He even texts to tell you to have an
amazing time with your friends, or he calls to say he can’t wait to see you
soon.
6. He is interested in what you enjoy.
He is truly interested in what you enjoy doing, or what you
like most in life. It does not mean that he has to love everything you love, or
do everything that you do. You may be into music, but he loves art – and that
is perfectly fine. He really wants to know what excites you and makes you feel
alive in life so that he can support your happiness.
7. He makes you laugh.
They always say that laughter really is the best medicine.
Not every boyfriend has to be a professional comedian, but a perfect boyfriend
does have a good sense of humor. He is playful and likes to joke around with
you every once in a while. He might do silly things only with you. You two
might even have endearing little names for each other too.
8. He is independent.
The perfect boyfriend provides for himself, lives on his
own, and takes pride in being an independent and contributing member of
society. It is never fun to go on a ‘date’ and be the one picking up the tab
all the time. A perfect boyfriend is also someone you know could possibly be a
good husband in the future. If he has his own independence, he can already
provide for himself – and maybe his future family too.
9. He fully trusts you.
Trust is the basis of all strong and meaningful
relationships. If trust is not present in any relationship, chances are it will
not last long. Trust is essential. If you have trust there is no jealousy or
insecurities. Most relationships that include jealousy stem from past
relationship patterns that were not healthy. These negative qualities sometimes
get carried over into the next relationship. A perfect boyfriend would not be
texting or calling every hour to find out where you are when you are not
together. We all get a little insecure and jealous sometimes, but the ideal man
does not let it get the best of him and it does not affect your relationship at
all.
10. He always has your back.
Life includes ups and down, good parts and bad parts. No
matter what each of you are going through, you are there to support each other.
A perfect boyfriend would definitely be one that stands by you through the good
and the bad. He’ll be by your side in any tough situation you might be going
through in life. He is there to support you and to lift you up. He is there for
you through good and bad, encouraging you to keep going even if you fall. He is
your teammate, your cheerleader, and the one that makes your life better each
and every day.
11. He doesn’t avoid conflict.
If something is bothering him or there is an issue, he does
not avoid addressing it. He is able to share his own thoughts and feelings
freely in a positive way. We all have things that bother us. The perfect
boyfriend would share those issues instead of letting them build up inside
until they come out later in a negative way. The stronger the communication is
with your boyfriend, the better your chances of working through issues as they
arise.
12. He makes plans with you.
The perfect boyfriend calls you, texts you, checks in with
you often and suggests things to do. He also makes plans with you. He wants to
spend his time with you. If you are always the one initiating the communication
or making plans to see each other, maybe he is not the best match for you.
13. He is thoughtful.
You don’t have to be necessarily romantic to be thoughtful.
Although, that is a great quality to have as well. Being thoughtful could be
something simple like bringing you food when you are sick, or doing something
sweet to cheer you up when you are having a bad day. He plans for special
events because he truly wants you to feel loved by him. The perfect boyfriend
considers your feelings and his reactions reflect his thoughtfulness.
14. He cooks for you.
Society also likes to portray that the woman should always
cook. It’s the 21st century. We are no longer living in Leave It To
Beaver-land. This doesn’t mean he cooks all the time, but hopefully he has a
dish or two he has perfected. Maybe he is a master on the grill. There is
something sexy about a man taking the time to cook something just for the two
of you. It is also another outward act of his feelings for you.
15. His actions match his words.
If we don’t have our word, what do we have? Honesty is a
virtue and the perfect boyfriend will embody that. When he says he will call
you at 9pm; he does. When he says you are going to hang out this upcoming
weekend; you do. When he makes promises to you; he keeps them. If you are
consistently being let down by your boyfriend telling you one thing but doing
another, chances are he is not the perfect one for you.
16. He includes you with his family and friends.
Being introduced to family and friends might come later in
the relationship, but if you are in a long-term relationship and you have not
yet met his close friends or family, he might not be the one. The perfect
boyfriend really wants you to meet his friends and family because he enjoys
spending time with you. He enjoys being around you so much he wants everyone he
cares about to know about you and get to know you personally.
17. He shows affection.
This is an important aspect. This does not mean you have to
make-out with your boyfriend in every public place possible, but it does mean
when you are out in public he enjoys holding your hand, or putting his arm
around you and showing you affection. Affection is an important part of any
relationship. The perfect boyfriend will outwardly show his love for you with
affection. He will also tell you how amazing you look and how much he loves
that dress on you. There is no criticism of the way you look, just complete
adoration.
18. He respects you.
This should be a no-brainer, but sadly there are many
relationships lacking the basic foundation of respect. The perfect boyfriend
would never, ever attempt to push, hit, or lay a hand on you. He would never
scream and yell at you all the time or call you horrible names. There would
never be a valid reason for that to ever happen! Going through epic fights and
then making up later is not an example of true love. The perfect boyfriend is
able to control his anger and work through his issues so that they are never
taken out on you. He adores you. He would be so upset if anything were to
happen to you. He admires you deeply and will treat you the best way he knows
how.
19. He is willing to compromise.
If everyone agreed with each other all of the time, the
world would be a boring place. The perfect boyfriend compromises on issues or
making plans because he wants the relationship to work. If you are always doing
what your boyfriend wants to do, and nothing that you have ever suggested, then
your boyfriend is not willing to compromise. This is especially important
regarding holidays and family situations. When your boyfriend compromises, you
definitely know that he is considering your feelings instead of only his own.
20. He shows sympathy.
When something serious is going on in your life and you are
having a really hard time, he consoles you. If your dog dies, he is there. If
something happens to your family, he is there. Unfortunately, bad things will
happen in life and the perfect boyfriend will be by your side through all of
it. Even if he isn’t sure what to say, he is there supporting you, holding your
hand, and letting you cry on his shoulder. If he can see that you are visibly
upset about something, he will ask you to talk about it and not dismiss your
feelings.
Believe In Yourself, It Is Not A ROCKET Science You Can Make It.
No matter what people tell you....your words, your ideas and
your ART can and will make a difference in this world!
Never ever listen to anyone who tells you otherwise....if
you have an idea, something you want to share with the world and you want to
just get up and talk about your passion then Get up and Do It!
You have a duty to the world to share your gifts and talents
and don't let anyone make you feel that you have nothing of value to
offer.....I don't care how successful they may be in any realm or pursuit they
can never silence your gift, your purpose and your ART!
If I listened to the opinions of others I would have never
started Before 5am and my mission in life is to help each and everyone of you
find your unique voice, your passion and your purpose and turn that into
something so magnificent and magical that one day we all stand back and watch
your genius unfold in front of our eyes and move our souls, move us to tears
because you have simply performed at a level that no other being on earth could
ever emulate.
I believe in you, I believe in your ideas and your
ART.....now it's time to believe in yourself and change the world with your
gifts and Talents!
WHAT HAPPEN YESTERDAY IS THE PAST WHAT YOU DO NOW DETERMINE THE FUTURE
WHAT HAPPEN YESTERDAY IS THE PAST WHAT YOU DO NOW DETERMINE THE FUTURE
It might be news to you but what's done is done...the past
is is the past, it's over...so stop looking back!
It's time to stop looking back at what's happened to you in
the past and step up and start looking ahead to the only thing that
matters.....Your Future!
You can waste your whole life worrying and over thinking
what people have said or done to you or even what you did or didn't do...the
reality is it's over, there is no going back so be wise enough to cut your
losses and move forward boldly!
Nothing you do now can change the past but I promise you
everything you do now will determine your future...that should excite you and
motivate you to make the rest of your life, the best of your life!
So get up and get moving!
You've got a beautiful and successful and epic life to
create and that starts right now!
Decide to be done with the past, promise yourself to learn
from your mistakes and then commit yourself to creating a life that blows your
own wild imagination away!
You will never move forward dwelling in the past, the past
can only drill you of all the happy moment of your life. You deserve a better
life, you deserve to be happy. Don’t get stock up in the past. May be you might
have been hurt by your best friend, your parents, or even your wife.
You can still come back and do more, live more and be more
in life, it is not over until it is over and it will never be over until you
win.
Saturday, 11 July 2015
Do Taking The Easy Path Really Worth Your Precious Time?
Do Taking The Easy Path Really Worth Your Precious Time?
Today its popular to talk about work, "the grind", hustle and the struggle.
Everyone likes to believe they know what these words mean and that they live them...but when you ask to see the results they throw thier hands in the air and shrug their shoulders and say in a whiney voice "I dont know why Im not getting the result". Yes you do.You are either
1. Working a bad plan
2. Haven't worked a good plan long enough
3. Aren't doing the fucking work
Thats it. THATS ALL IT CAN BE. In 95% of the cases its number 3 thats the issue.
Think of all the opportunities lost because of the choice to take the "easy path" as opposed to the one that required more effort?
Its this fear of work that is the main culprit that is responsible for an unfulfilling, disappointing, frustrating and regretful life.
Its a stone cold iron clad fact of life that the greatest reward lies along the path of most resistance.There is no magic.
There is no "what if". IF YOU DO THE WORK...ON A WORTHY PLAN...THE RESULT WILL BE THERE. PERIOD.Yet, everyone choses the easy path. Why?
Because they
1. They convince themselves that there other factors in play...luck, magic, little success fairies that shit hundred dollar bills on ones head...a million little justifications....lies.
OR
2. they are afraid of doing the work.
If you are frustrated, mad, disgusted and sick & tired of where you are...quit trying to just "get by" with minimal effort!
Would you rather keep being miserable or would you rather be who you REALLY want to be?! We only get one shot at life and the way it works is: You are a result of the choices you make.
That means you are a result of the choices you have made thus far... if you aren't happy with where you are, reflect on the choices you have made and START MAKING BETTER FUCKING CHOICES! No more compromise. No more regrets.No more lying to yourself. No more settling. No more excuses.
You get what you deserve (work for). Your results tell your REAL story. PERIOD.
How To Start A T-Shirt Business With Zero Cash
How To Start A T-Shirt Business With Zero Cash
People often ask about different ways to generate extra income and this is one of such post. This post is great info for anyone looking to get started with a side hustle.
"TeeSpring.com allows you to essentially create your own clothing company with ZERO up front costs. This crowd-funding approach has huge upside with very little risk.
1. Upload a design.
2. Set a campaign sales goal.
3. Spread the word.
Once your campaign sales goal has been reached, TeeSpring handles all of the production and shipping. All that is left for you to do is wait for TeeSpring to cut you a check for your share of the profits."
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